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When I first read the statement " serve your husbands like first class pros" I was like dumbfounded. I had to pinch myself to realize that what I was reading was any true or was i just dreaming. I do not have any hidden agenda for this blog and entry but I think that that statement is just so so barbaric. Yes i am sorry to use this word but I think that it is my blog and i am entitled to use what word that I find fit to the situation. I just do not understand the state of mind the person was when she uttered those words in public only to be made such a controversial issue. Maybe the statement was made in order to get "cheap publicity" in a manner of speaking. I really do not know but it has really made its point in the local as well as international media.
I hope that the front liner who are able to make statements in the public should learn about "cause and effect" before making such statements. Do not just open your mouth to make noise but open your mouth to make statements which are well prepared and know the consequences of those statements.
Well in our society where Equality is norm and the motion between between sexes is becoming less and less but with this statement, i am amazed  !
I am not saying what was said to be wrong or right but it should not be done in such a manner. If you want to make such a statement then you should also learn to "sweet coat " it and  should refined the words used !

Oh well what is said cannot be undone, the damage has been done. Just be more "refine" when making more remarks and learn of the consequences of such statements.

I am a firm believer to follow what my late grandpa use to say " Before you want to say anything, you should first think about it, then weight about the effect and once you are satisfy that it will not cost any damage, only then you should utter any words". That is so much true as there have been many times in our lives when in anger or frustration we have said something and those words have hurt someone close to us. So remember this before opening your mouth next time. Another wise saying which i like and would like to share here is that " If you do not have anything nice to say, then just shut the F*** Up " But then that could be interpreted as being arrogant !

Being as a public figure, one must learn the proper manner when addressing the situation and must also know what to say, when to say what and above all when to say nothing because when you say nothing at all, your body movement also doing the "talking" for u. I am sure you know what i am talking about " Lie to me " :D