Dear parents,
I have observed that many of you want to be parents but are not really ready for the responsibility that comes with it. If you are married and you are suppose to conceive which you do. But to raise another human is not the same as raising an animal. Well if with animals you do not have the same feelings as you have for the human or child or the person who is carrying your name. I had to write this because parents now are changing for the worst. If you are not prepared to take care of your children then i am sure you can do the necessary steps to prevent them from coming to this world !
To the mother of my pupil S..
Well i know that you work hard in the factory and it is not easy for you. Money is tight and your other children who are able to work are helping out in what manner they can but please do not allow my pupil S the live his childhood. What are you trying to prove by asking him to do the whole family laundry in the middle of the nite thus making him sleepy during my lesson the next day ? Why such a treatment to your own flesh and blood ? He is of course your own son and you are this very mother who carried him for nine months yet you deprive him of his precious sleep just because he is not working. He is too small work and that is his fault so you use him as your personal maid ! Well i am very sad and feel pity for not him but for you because all this will somehow leave a deep scar in him towards you his mother and the thing we call family. Does a family mean that the children who are too small to work are exposed to these sort of abuse ? I mean this is worst then child abuse. Well he is so damn thin and not even sure if he is getting enough of meals as a growing child. Well I am just an outsider but i can see the damage has already been made by your actions. Even if you think that it is part of teaching responsibility and doing house chores but to wake him up in the middle of the night and ask the poor kid to wash the family laundry while you and the other children enjoy your sleep is plain abuse !
Well I hope that you will learn that this is not the manner or way to teach a child about responsibility and also about helping around the house and making the child useful in the house. There are i am sure many other manner and avenues in which this lesson can be taught.Hope God is watching this abuse and you will see the light soon !
To the father of my pupil K,
You son is a very adorable son and naughty at times but then he is just a child and hyperactive. Each day he comes to school at 7am in the morning and he goes back when you finish your work at 5pm. I mean what sort of father will allow his son to be in school after school. I feel really pity for him and have secretly being giving him part of my breakfast to him as his lunch. When all the kids are going home and have left home, there he sits in the heat of the afternoon sweating and hungry waiting for you until 5pm. What sort of father will do such a thing to their own son ? He is too young and innocent to comprehend all that is happening to him right now and will one day understand but please change for him because others who are watching this are very sad and feel for the child. He does not need all this waiting and hungry until 5pm. Being a father you should make arrangement to get him picked up after school so that he is back home and resting. Well you should know better since he is your son. God i hope you are watching this and will do something about it.
To the mother who only want to be a weekend mother,
I have heard of mother wanting to get a child and doing all sort of prayers just to conceive and then forget all that once the children are in the family. You are not being a nice mother if you are not waking up in the morning and prepare breakfast for your child. How much of love will the child have for you if the child knows that it was their aunt that wakes up each morning to prepare them for school ? And when they are big enough and they know their rights and are able to stand on their own feet then begin to neglect you then you complain that they are being grateful but is that really any truth to that ?
Well I think this entry a on a heavy and harden truth on parenting. A rich brat once told me this.." I did not choose to come to this world.. my father and mother brought me here so it is their responsibility to take care of my every need " Is he correct or being ungrateful ? I leave it to you to ponder and wonder..
