Come 21.6.2015 it is going to be my first Father's day Celebration for me. I know it is bit too fast for that as my son is still so small and does not really comprehend the real meaning of the celebration.
Well Jaskaran, papa is also learning each and everyday about how to be a good papa and so is your mom. We do not have a manual or "How to books to guide us on being a good parent. What I am learning is thru trial and error. But promised that I will try to be a good father to you and try my best to provide for you the best things in life.
What I need to get for you is not money but the ability to learn to make money. Making money is easy but to learn the value of money is hard part. You should know that money can but things but not family and love. Therefore I will try to make understand about money from the young on things that are easy for you to understand. You need to know about how to safe money just like my dad taught me.
Let me share with you this lesson about money management which your grandpa taught me. You see when I was young and going to school, I use to get 50cent as pocket money and being the adsent minded I would forget to put the money in my pocket thus having no money during recess. Well your grandpa then gave me rm15.00 per month as pocket money. This would teach me on how to manage the pocket money well. I use to take food from home and save the money and by the end of the year would have saved a lot of money and eventually purchase something nice for myself as a reward. Those were the great days.
So that is one of the same manner in which I tended to teach you as well.Jaskaran, you should also learn to be street smart and not only smart in studies.
Saturday, June 20, 2015
Tuesday, June 9, 2015
On 1.5.2015, God blessed me and my wife with a wonderful son which we named Jaskaran Singh Maan. He is such a blessing to the whole family and of course a joy to the rest of the world.
Well it has not been easy and to get things sorted out for him.
There is a traditional in the Sikh religion that, no baby clothes should be bought beforehand and this is a custom strictly followed by the Hindus as well. So imagine me not having bought anything and nurses and even the doctors advice me to do so. Well I was determined to follow the custom to the end which I did.
It all started with my wife got her contracting and I got her bags and my mom following us to our normal gyne. To my horror, my gyne was on holiday in India and so I was advised to go to the General hospital. Well so I went to the hospital and got her admitted. She was taken in and was examined by the doctor on call. Later, she was placed to the wards as she was having pre contradicting pain and was still long way to go.
So the next day, I waited for my sister to come down and we were shopping for the baby items when I got a call from the hospital informing me that my wife was was being taken to the delivery suite. Well I rushed to the hospital. and the wait began.
At about 9.44pm Jaskaran Singh Maan was born at the hospital by 4 doctors who were in the suite with me . I too was there for the whole baby delivering process. It was a really tiring process for my wife but I am so proud of her because she could bear the pain without the famous Epidorel jab which is used to reduce the labor pains.
Well today is the 9 of june and it is coming to the end of the confinement period. During the confinement period, no pictures should be send to anyone via Whatsapps. Well come 14 june, Jaskaran will be having his janam prayer and also thanks giving prayers.
Well am going to start a new blog entitled My son soon..
Well it has not been easy and to get things sorted out for him.
There is a traditional in the Sikh religion that, no baby clothes should be bought beforehand and this is a custom strictly followed by the Hindus as well. So imagine me not having bought anything and nurses and even the doctors advice me to do so. Well I was determined to follow the custom to the end which I did.
It all started with my wife got her contracting and I got her bags and my mom following us to our normal gyne. To my horror, my gyne was on holiday in India and so I was advised to go to the General hospital. Well so I went to the hospital and got her admitted. She was taken in and was examined by the doctor on call. Later, she was placed to the wards as she was having pre contradicting pain and was still long way to go.
So the next day, I waited for my sister to come down and we were shopping for the baby items when I got a call from the hospital informing me that my wife was was being taken to the delivery suite. Well I rushed to the hospital. and the wait began.
At about 9.44pm Jaskaran Singh Maan was born at the hospital by 4 doctors who were in the suite with me . I too was there for the whole baby delivering process. It was a really tiring process for my wife but I am so proud of her because she could bear the pain without the famous Epidorel jab which is used to reduce the labor pains.
Well today is the 9 of june and it is coming to the end of the confinement period. During the confinement period, no pictures should be send to anyone via Whatsapps. Well come 14 june, Jaskaran will be having his janam prayer and also thanks giving prayers.
Well am going to start a new blog entitled My son soon..
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